...what's been going on since you last took a look on the website, we thought we'd just add a quick update on how the two of us are.
We've had good days, we've had bad days, we spent about three weeks in Scotland where we scattered Tye's ashes and we've been down to Portsmouth to visit family and spent a week there.
Apart from that, one of the rooms of the house still has lots of baby stuff in it. We've also popped back in to the Hospital to see another mum and dad with their daughter, and we've also been arguing - well they say that it is part of the grieving process.
We've got to be there for each other, and that's where it is going to be hard. But, we'll try to do it one day at a time for now, and see what happens.
Many thanks for all your lovely comments, emails etc. We have had so much support from all of you. It would be great if you all could stay in touch with us. We'd appreciate that.
Well, that's us for now, speak soon.
Comments
Thinking of you...
Hi Belinda and Simon
Just wanted to say hello and let you know that i'm thinking about you. Losing a precious baby so small is such a hard hard thing to go through. It really is one day and step at a time. You have both been through so much and you are both truly wonderful people. I was always amazed at your energy and ability to finish each other's sentences - you are a perfect pair! Life will be tough and you will shout at each other, get cross with each other but you will also love each other and comfort each other. Tye is testament of your love for each other - look how strong he was! When me and Ruby sing Twinkle Twinkle we think of my liitle girl Scarlett and Tye, twinkling up there in the sky above us all. Any time you would like a visit - just let me know and i'd love to come and see you.
Lots of love
Jane and Ruby xxx
wishes
think of you often you were brave to go to the hospital to meet other parents it must have been hard
stay strong for both your sakes love pam and family